I'm 28, and my mom is basically telling that I should settle for a fat girl, someone that's divorced/widowed.
Most Helpful Girl
Your mom is just desperate for you to have children and to satisfy the fact that you have somebody. Honestly never settle. You settle because you do love that person regardless of your wants. Because I always say this: What you want isn't going to be what you need and what you isn't always going to be what you want. What do you NEED in a woman? Then figure out if your wants compliments or clashes with your needs. Chose whats best for you, not what your mother thinks. Because she sounds like she doesn't have the wisdom to even tell you that.1
Most Helpful Guy
If you don't feel you want to settle for someone like that, then don't. Don't try and force it to happen if you know that's not what you truly want and won't truly make you happy. What are you exactly willing to do? Listen and trust your own instincts or just follow and do exactly as your mother expects you to?0