Just moved into my apartment in August. I've ran into this cute girl a few times already, twice while we were the only ones in the laundry room doing a load. 2 days ago I walked in, she was doing a load and saw me and smiled. I made some small talk with her for a few minutes and then she got a phone call from her mom. When I got off the elevator back at my floor it turns out her parents were waiting in front of her door for her. I only know this cause when I got off the lady says "Oh that's not her... Was there a girl in the laundry room with you?" and we all had a laugh. But I realized that she lives only 3 doors down the hall from me.
All the units in the building are studios, and I think there's at least a decent chance she's single. Aside from just waiting until the next time we bump into each other, do you think it would be too forward to just knock on her door sometime when I know she's probably home and say hi? Or some other way of making contact? I haven't ran into her often enough to think that I will for sure bump into her, for example, sometime within the next week. Any thoughts?
Most Helpful Girl
I'd say wait til you bump into her again and then ask her if she wants to hang out.. tell her your unit number and see if she wants to come watch a movie or something.0
Most Helpful Guy
Next time you run into her just flirt a bit with her and then ask her out. Or suggest that you two go get something to eat and a nice place near you. Don't go find her door and knock on it. She would find that creepy. Also don't do the secret admirer. Women always put their imaginary boyfreind on to high of a pedestal that no man can measure up to. Just be nice with her and ask her out.0