I think it can be hard for some guys, because society generally tells guys that it's not okay for them to express their emotions. Guys are seen as weak if they express emotion. Now things are getting better, but there is still a lot of shaming going on when men are expressing their emotional side. I think that might be part of it.
They don't want to see a lady cry, so instead of being up front and having to deal with the crying or emotions, it's just simply easier to ghost. I think that's why a lot of people do it now.
But honestly, it's better to be honest.
I like getting closure, but I think no matter what someone says, I don't think it's really going to help. There's always going to be some questions. But I think instead of worrying about exactly why something happens, just accept it and try to do the best to move on.
I've been in a lot of situations and relationships where the guy has ghosted or it was unclear exactly why we broke up and why he lost interest. It definitely hurts, and I've been there wondering why. But it's just easier to accept it and move on. A lot of times it has nothing to do with what you did or you as a person. It's more just they have their own issues they are working through. Perhaps you just weren't the person they could work through things with. And they needed to be with someone else for some reason.
Um, we're not? Ahh. Here's the thing. I think that whomever feels less in the relationship cares less about closure. They've already determined their closure, so they don't care about yours. Male or female. That's just the way it goes. They came to the decision to break up or otherwise have other avenues to explore, so they don't need closure. The only one that needs closure is the one who thought the relationship was going to keep going. Maybe.
To be honest I don't see it has helpful in anyway. We aren't working out we break up we go our separate ways and that's it.
Women make things too difficult. After a breakup I don't want to talk to my now ex for hours at time or see her a few times a week for "closure". I just want whatever shit you have of mine and be done with it. Women talk too much.
hun when its really bad we want to kill you women and i mean literally so its best that we stay away and give us time to breath and relax, cause where talking about a break up and if it involves kids even worse, cause now there is an even higher chance of being killed if he actually cares about the child
ghosting is wrong on any level... but we don't mind NOT getting closer because we know we have to move on. When the relationship is over, there is no point arguing or explaining : there is nothing, so move on
"Closure" is a euphemistic bullshit psychological term for putting a boundary on something that does not have one. We are OK with not getting closure because there really is no such thing. There is only distance in time and space, but never closure.
What is closure exactly? I'm the kind of guys that wants my body burned in the backyard when I die because I will be dead so idgaf and a funeral is a waste of money so maybe I'm not the best person to ask here.