It's quite often that females feel we need some kind of closure on a relationships.
But guys are known to completely ghost when they dont want to commit or break up with a girl if they got into a relationship of some kind.
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I think it can be hard for some guys, because society generally tells guys that it's not okay for them to express their emotions. Guys are seen as weak if they express emotion. Now things are getting better, but there is still a lot of shaming going on when men are expressing their emotional side. I think that might be part of it.
They don't want to see a lady cry, so instead of being up front and having to deal with the crying or emotions, it's just simply easier to ghost. I think that's why a lot of people do it now.
But honestly, it's better to be honest.
I like getting closure, but I think no matter what someone says, I don't think it's really going to help. There's always going to be some questions. But I think instead of worrying about exactly why something happens, just accept it and try to do the best to move on.
I've been in a lot of situations and relationships where the guy has ghosted or it was unclear exactly why we broke up and why he lost interest. It definitely hurts, and I've been there wondering why. But it's just easier to accept it and move on. A lot of times it has nothing to do with what you did or you as a person. It's more just they have their own issues they are working through. Perhaps you just weren't the person they could work through things with. And they needed to be with someone else for some reason.1