There's a guy I like but I think he may be a little shy to ask me out but I can tell he likes me, we chat very little, I see him at the gym maybe 3 times a week and he complimentsaid me saying I look good but I feel he's a bit nervous to ask me out. Is it a good idea for me to ask him out? I was planning on just being bold and walking up to him and tell him something like:
Me- hey how u doing!
Him- doing good
Me- blah blah blah
Him- blah blah blah
Me- that's cool, hey u seem pretty cool would u like to hang out sometime and maybe go out to lunch and eat something?
What do u guys and girls think about this approach?
- Yes ask him outVote A
- No wait until he asks youVote B
Most Helpful Guy
I'm too shy to ask someone out. I'm working on that though. I would be fine to be asked out but I would feel pathetic1
Most Helpful Girl
Me from 2 years ago would say "go for it!", but me from now - no. Because I'm tired of always being the one approaching. I've been with 8 guys overall, and only 1 of them approached ME. I give all the signs but they seem so oblivious about that it pisses me off. Then I ask them out and they say "yes" because daaah they are GUYS and of course they are not gonna reject a good, convenient opportunity to get some. Especially since my looks are good. All of those 7 guys ended up getting bored of me and dumping me, while only that 1 guy that asked me out really did care more about me. I mean there's nothing wrong you doing the first move, but I strongly recommend just waiting it out a little bit more and giving some more signs, because there's no better feeling when a guy you like asks you out! Then you can be sure that it took him courage and effort to actually do it and that it's not just a convenience for him, that he really likes you. And I'm sure he'll feel great if you say yes, it would mean that his natural hunting instinct got payed off.0