Alright guys and girls. I'm a junior in high school and I've never done anything with a girl. I'm homeschooled. I work at a movie theater on the weekends so all I ever see are couples. It's so annoying seeing guys my age with GFs. I really want a girlfriend. What are the best ways to deal with this? This upcoming January I'm gonna start going to my local High School. Any tips for going to public school? Do girls like the new guy? All tips are welcome. Thanks
Most Helpful Girl
Your young. These so called couples don't really know what their doing because their hormones are raging. They have no immediate plans for the future except getting naked. And very rarely do they worry about marriage and the prospects of a future together. That's it. And there is so much heartbreak and unnecessary stress that comes with it. Overall just focus on what your goals are. You want to go to college? Focus on that. You have a career in mind? Do it. You want to travel the world or go to your favorite place to visit? Make plans NOW! But, if you are interested in dating, you need to figure out what is your reasons for dating. Because if you say your yearning for a girl or is lonely and miserable, that is NOT a good reason!
No good would be interested in somebody who is like that unless she just wants to use you. That's it. And yes, girls use guys too at your age, it isn't just the other way around. Next find out where do you see yourself 5-10 years from now. What are your dreams regarding a love life? Do you plan on getting married? If so, you need to figure this out now while you are thinking about it. Why I say this? Its best your never too young to think on it. And if you get yourself involved with a girl, all these things are nothing more than pipe dreams when you can't deliver. Also you need to know what kind of relationship you are looking for. Because you will come across girls who are not ready for a relationship, is only looking for a sexual relationship, or is waiting to marriage for sex. Make your intentions clear from the beginning.
But overall, you do need to focus on your schoolwork and be concerned about getting your future in order first. Once you have a plan, then you can find a potential dating partner. Until then, don't rush to hop into something you may not be ready for.2
Most Helpful Guy
Honestly the best way to constantly act like you're a player, but instead of mean and disrespectful be happy and sweet, and have something that allows you to see girls on a regular basis: like a job, a bar, a church, or best of all: a college.
We're not naturally and permenantly handicapped, we just haven't learned all the tricks when it comes to girls. Were not sure about the attitude we need. Just smile a LOT and be sweet! But at the same time be confident and forward.
-a homeschooler just like you who finally got a girlfriend in college.1