Any experiences of it working for you?
Does "No Contact" really work?
What Guys Said 9
Don't send.. mixed... signals0
Some people it does but usually the ones who do that play mind games and that gets old after awhile.1
Start with 'No Contact" first. Then you can slowly proceed with more and more contact till one fine day you completely engulf her in your arms.0
yeah it does works sometimes0
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What Girls Said 9
I found it worked really well for me. No contact allows you to get on with your life and you eventually meet new people and before you know it you're back to your old self again.2
I have done that before but it's because I didn't wanna talk to that person anymore and was fed up with his ways and how much he hurt me. He's been initiating texts a lot after that but i just be polite and respond. I don't initiate at all anymore because, if possible, I don't wanna have anything to do with him anymore... not even being friends.
So yea, in my case, NC "worked"... Though my objective wasn't to get them to want or miss me... But it just did.1
I am in the middle of NO CONTACT now. It has worked for him, but drives me insane... It has been since April, but this is regarding a sticky situation - both married, and had five year affair, broke it off a year ago, then got back, then broke it off again... he totally has gone no contact, i have emailed only twice since April, no response. Wrote a long letter, just the other day... it seems to work for the guys more, especially when they want to move on, and bury hurt!0
It depends on the person, i have one ex that i didn't want contact with, he pops up every couple of years and says something because we have mutual friends, and i have other ex's where once we were done that was it, but this one ex i had to delete my email, and change my phone number because he was always trying to talk me into going back with him. I only keep in contact with one of my ex's because it was a mistake even dating him and screwed our friendship up. We only dated like 2 weeks and he had cheated on me in that time frame lol i forgave him because we were seriously better as just friends and nothing else. He stops into my parents house and helps my dad out from time to time and my parents still call him their adopted child.0
Yess he'll miss youu and will follow you by himself trust me it works1
Yes, it helps you move past your feeling for the other person and focuse on you.1
yup it does
Well when you say "is it working for you," what do you mean then if you aren't trying to get him/her back?0
Sometimes it does and other times no. It depends on the person I think. I believe if someone really starts to miss th other and they have not heard from the person in awhile they start to think about them more and more. Like the love they had for the person never went away it just woke up again after no contact. Others however brush it off. I have ignored a couple of people without the intention of getting either back and they came running back begging. Guess you don't know what you got until it's gone.1