Whats common today is 'why go on a date with guy and have him spend money on you and receive gifts he buys you when your not interested in him for sex or a relationship?' The only reason dating cost money and is draining your wallet guys is because women have the freedom and rights to use men for their money and free stuff, its the same way a conman works or a scam where you think your investing in something that's promising only to eventually get fucked over blindly, well its the same with women. Its illegal to scam someone of their money and if someone scammed you, go and get your money back and take them to court.
Women abuse this freedom they have and move towards bad intentions. To lead a guy on like that is emotional abusive and manipulative to use him. If the dates didn't work out in the end, simply reimburse the money for the dates and refund him the money for the gifts back if you decide to fuck some other guy, go cold, turn lesbian or whatever your reason the lie is about. A woman shouldn't date guy if she has no intentions in having sex and relationship with him and the solution would be to make the woman by law reimburse the man back if the dates didn't work out.
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The issue you run into here is that you can't make a law obligating women to give a man sex or a relationship just because he spends a little money on her. Furthermore, if you are only spending money on her because you think she will then give you sex or will have a relationship with you, then you have some serious messed up morals.
If you don't want to be taken advantage of by women who are just looking for free food and gifts then you need to set clear boundaries about when you will start to spend your money on her. As a man, you need to be selective about what you spend your resources on. Learn to communicate clearly and honestly about your expectations before the date and you will find most women are pretty damn reasonable about it.3
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