Many men want to have sex by the third or fourth time we hang out. For me, I feel we don't know each other well enough to care about each other and the sex would only be out of pure sexual interest. It makes me feel like an object. I would hope to make a connection and care about the man before I have sex, but it never seems to get that far because for some reason the man doesn't think I'm interested in him. Isn't it obvious if we're steadily hanging out and having a good time together?
Most Helpful Guy
Just curious, if you are having a good time, do you communicate to him that you're enjoying spending him with him, or enjoying his company, or something similar? As much as we wish we were, we're not mind readers. Even if you're having a good time it's possible that you're not letting him know how much of a good time.1
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Most Helpful Girl
they are using a stupid excuse to not make themselves look like an idiot. a guy who truly wanted you for you wouldn't do that. try saying "im not comfortable with it right now" some guys just dont know your limit, and you need to voice that. some will wait for you, others will just use that lame excuse. thats a filter.2