I'm white, but the truth is, I am not attracted to white guys anymore.. Most probably because of bad experiences or the fact that, every single white guy, I know has that 'fuckboi' image. To be honest, I really like Asian guys, since they act quite.. Different. However most of Asian guys date only Asian women.. Are white women really not attractive to Asian guys at all?
Uhhhh what city are you in? I went to high school here in Southern OC in California and Asian men definitely like white women. Culturally they are a strong family based unit, but every family and man is different. Just talk to the one you think is the cutest.
I don't know about dating Asians in the west but I find the people in Asia to be kind of terrified of white people, as in, my boyfriend is terrified of me meeting his parents cause he's afraid they'll practically disown him cause he's dating me, a white girl. The East Asians are very conservative about dating their own kind, and the fact not many people there speak good English. Like, "hey that white girl might be cute, but I'm afraid of talking to her since I don't speak English and she might not speak my language.." My boyfriend decided to jump the gun and ask me on a proper date, and we just starting dating, and he told me he wanted to prove how serious this was by introducing me to the parents. Usually this means marriage but really, I'm only 18, lol. But the only issues that will arise are the fact that the parents know nothing about me and this weekend I'll be seeing them for the first time as they will probably even hear of me and I think it'll go "really? My son is dating THIS?" It's a cultural thing, and it's difficult.
There are like a handful of Asian guys at the moment who love Caucasian women.
But these are the ones that are a little more 'white-washed', for example myself. I've been around white girls all my life... I've known no other lifestyle (I was raised in a more affluent and white asf area).
Trust me, as time progresses, you'll see more Asian guys actually start pursuing other races and leaving behind their roots.
No, Asian guys do date white girls. In fact, their media godizes white features as exotic and much in demand. They probably aren't finding you pretty. I was in asia with a couple of white folks, and this Asian guy said, "Please help me, I want a white woman."
My grandad is Japanese and he married a white woman (my grandmother). They met in an opera house in Venice. My grandmother just like you was tired of men from her culture and fell in love straight away with this mysterious Asian man.
I think men in general LOVE PRETTY WOMEN unless they are easily swayed by society and cultural norms.