Should I tell my boyfriend he's getting fat?
he used to be a really fit athlete, but here's the last pic he sent me (i cut out his head and under the pic) and he's looking unfit. we haven't talked about it, but he's gained a lot of weight recently.
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Do y'all live together?
If yes - who does the cooking? Start cooking healthier meals and don't buy any junk snacks. Opt for buying flavor packets for water and don't purchase sugary drinks. Suggest going for a walk and/or run a few evenings during the week.
What Guys Said 16
That's not fat. Gross and I think he's pushing out his stomach, but not fat. Great now I have to focus on scrubbing that image out of my mind..
He's an athlete? Of what?
It is a delicate matter. You need to tell him skilfully. Anyway boys don't mind if they are fat. So even if you tell him that he is fat , he may not be ready to change. Accept him as he is. If you irritate him , he may dump you.
Yeah, best to nip it in the bud; I knew a guy who died of a heart attack at 38 (he was considerably fatter than this).
If you're concerned of course take action.
Yes. And you have a right to leave him if he's not keeping himself in the condition he was in when you got together.
Yes you defiantly should tell him
sure, honesty is always the best
Yes, you should tell him.
Looool :D Just leave this noob get a new one. He looks like an alien, look at these arms lmao.
i though this body is a kids body like 6 or 7 years old lol
yeah he's got that underbelly crease only fatasses get
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What Girls Said 6
Answer this honestly: how would you feel if he said you were getting fat?
Yeah, but be subtle about it, if he gets butthurt or something he's most likely not gonna change a thing.
Personally I think you should find a way to tactfully tell him that he is gaining a bit of weight and you'd prefer him to take care of himself. I would say the same if the situation were reversed.
Tell him, I think you should be honest with your boyfriend.
I tell my boyfriend when he starts gaining a bit. He is very healthy, and it isn't hard for him to lose weight if he does gain about 5 pounds.
Better stop your boyfriend now than later.
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