First dude I dated for 8-9 months. He cheated on me at least 10x with his ex girlfriend according to her boyfriend at the time. I took him back 2x. He pressured me to do stuff with him when I was 15 and he threatened to beat up my dad and cursed out my mom Bc I broke up w him. He also violated a restraining order and spray painted my fence. He slapped me in the face Bc I didn't want to get high and he called me names like shit bird and went on to abuse other girls. The second one I dated when I was 19 for about 8 months. He admitted to making me jealous of his ex on purpose. He put time with his friends first and only made an attempt to spend quality time with me at 3-4 am on a Friday or Saturday night after he had gotten drunk and high and partied with his friends and then just wanted to fuck me. He got mad we couldn't fuck when I was sick with the flu, he lied to me about going to see his ex behind my back and he farted on me in front of his mom and expected me to pay for everything. Third boyfriend I dated for about 2 years. He slept in bed with his ex, said things like he was a sociopath and he emotionally, physically and sexually abused me, belittled and criticized me and slept in bed with my best friend and then told me how cute he thought she and some other girls were probably to get me jealous. He lied to me about going to see his ex and neither of the 3 took me out on a date or did any nice things you would expect a boyfriend to do. So this "friend" in question thinks I deserve to be treated like this because of what? I was the stupid one that stayed faithful and spent my money on these assholes and I never once cursed at them even tho they treated me bad or fucked around on them and I never criticized them even though they criticized me and called me names. I also didn't manipulate them for money and now that my 3rd ex wanted to hook me up with someone can you blame me for not wanting to be with anyone Bc I've been hurt time and time again?
So a "friend" thinks I deserve to have bad karma for dating some jerks, do I?
What Guys Said 4
Wow. That's a streak of bad luck you've had. But to be honest, no, you don't deserve that. And no, I don't blame you at all for not wanting to be with anyone because I've lived that, too. You sound like a nice person who's just in the wrong place at the right time. I hope it gets better for you, though.0
How boringly typical.
Yes. You deserve every bad thing that comes your way. You rewarded a scumbag with sex. What did you think, that you have a magical pussy that would make scumbags stop being scumbags?0
It the Almighty that rewards, everything should be done out of love.0
What Girls Said 1
your friend should be a little more comprehensive and try to help you instead of making you feel worse. you don't deserve any bad karma. Even more, karma will get those motherfuckers who treated you so badly. Karma isn't supposed to "attack" you if you didn't do anything wrong. however, I think you should be a little more confident and never let a guy disrespect you.
It sucks to know all the bad thing you went through, but this guys acted like jerks with you only because you let them do so.
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