Can juniors date freshmen in high school?

I'm 14 and a freshman in high school. I get mistaken for older than I am a fair amount -- just because of looks and how I act. I don't have much experience with relationships -- heck, I'm 14 -- except for one not very fun homecoming dance where my date turned out not to be very nice. There's this junior guy who's been talking to me and I think he might like me, and I have a bit of a crush on him myself. He's not one of those douchey white guys that take advantage of younger girls, but is very sweet and caring and witty (and cute), but am I crazy to think that he might like me or it would work out? Is two years too big of an age difference?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • In high school, he is probably just looking to hook up with you and brag to his friends about it. It will ruin your reputation.
    Plus he will leave school 2 years before you do. Do you really think he would wait around for you? Like once he turns 21 and you can't even go places that he can.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Haha, I've done the two year age gap thing at school before, and when I was your age. As long as you're 107% that he's being genuinely nice to you, and doesn't just want you for sex (it happens!; ask your friends/others at school what they think about him), and you're more than on top of your schoolwork (be honest with yourself!), then I guess you could try it if you wanted to? Are your parents okay with it?

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What Guys Said 5

  • Reasonable person: YOU should work on studying instead of dating.

    Me: you should work on studying instead of wanting your pussy crush cunt!

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  • Happened a LOT when I was in HS.

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  • Nope. That's wrong.

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  • Yes they can.

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  • Yes you can

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