It's scary to think that women deceive you into thinking that they find you physically attractive but in reality they only like you for your personality or your talents (play instruments etc). They say that "physical attraction comes later" I don't believe at all. I want my future girlfriend to find me physically attractive, like me for my personality and my talents/skills. I'm trying to avoid dating women that only like me for my personality.
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this is true both directions... similarly I might find a woman extremely attractive upon seeing her-then get to know her and due to an ugly personality no longer really see her as attractive... everything counts in attraction and repulsion.
Likewise, I don't think I'm some hot guy, perhaps not even average good looks... but many women who "friendzone" me at first come on to me after a while upon getting to know me... or simply accept my Xth advance after rejecting me several times... Women like confidence more than anything, that's all I know :)1