Im a busy busy white girl, i go to school and i have a job.
I go on dating sites when ever i have time because i feel lonely since all my friends are in nevada.
But i never thought online dating could be a pain in the ass.
Sooo many messages from men that i have zero interest in and its so annoying.
Like trying to find a diamond in the mud.
I tend to put on my profile
That i ONLY
"strongly prefer white & Latino men"
And yet most of my inbox is flooded with black men , Asian, and all this other shit..
The worst part is that people think you are "racist" for having a preference..
I AM NOT RACIST i have really close black friends !!
I am just really picky.
I can hardly find any Latino men or whites in my inbox because of all these thirsty black men, and when ever i do find a cute guy to start a conversation i suddenly lose him !! In my flooded muddy inbox !!
Most Helpful Guy
I'm so sorry people think you're attractive, how awful.
Doesn't hurt to try, usually. Every girl is picky, especially online, and they expect you to initiate and all that stuff. So dropping every girl that seems decent a message is the strategy that girls are going to cause guys to gravitate toward.0
Most Helpful Girl
I am blonde green eyes :-). Here is a trick, don't put too much on your profile; you want to let it come out in conversation especially if you want to keep a guy interested. I would lose the interested in only part of your profile and just say that you are picky and don't respond to everyone. What you do put on your profile is a demonstration of how you are a strong woman, which helps weed out some of the unwanted guys. I get a lot of unwanted men too, but just ignore them. When talking to a cute guy just keep asking questions and use emoti faces so he knows how you are feeling. Make him laugh. Good luck.1