I am a Hispanic guy but look a bit Asian to some people due to my slantish eyes. I wear special contacts that make my eyes bigger due to the fact that they cover a larger area of my eye. I like the fact that they make my eyes bigger but they also help me see better and are better than regular contacts so they are not only cosmetic but I need them as well (although I do have a pair that don't make my eyes bigger but see a little less with them). Additionally, I like to use texturizing paste on my hair and make it wavy. I do these things so I am less likely to be confused for an Asian guy which I don't like. Would you dump your boyfriend if you found out that his eyes are actually smaller than they appear and that his hair is not actually wavy?
Girls, Would you dump your boyfriend for this?
What Girls Said 11
I think at some point you should show them how you really look and see if they even care. Thing is, you shouldn't care about what assumptioms people make of you. A girl should like you for who you are and what you normally look like.1
That's a bit extreme to think you're unattractive because of having those features. You're overthinking.1
Nah, it's fine. Contacts kinda make me squeamish but as long as I don't have to watch him put them in, I don't care, and his hair is kinda wavy anyway but I wouldn't mind if he used hair stuff to do it.0
No. I date someone because I love their personality and who they are. If their appearance changed that would not even make me think of breaking up with them.0
Nope I wouldn't.
It's like dumping a girl because she wears make-up, or if she colours her hair blonde and straightens it, when naturally they're dark and wavy...
To me personally it's not a deal breaker.0
Nope, I would not.0
No, that would be so silly.0
I wouldn't dump him because of that, what's wrong with Asians?0
I would dump you if I found out. not because you look Asian, but because of your self-conciousness. you should accept who you are and what you look like. and if a girl can't accept that you should be the one dumping her!0
No that would be dumb. Would you break up with your girlfriend if you found out her lips aren't red, her eye lashes aren't that long, her eyebrows aren't that perfect, and her skin isn't flawless? Girls use make up, weave, wigs, extensions, acrylic nails, and more to improve their looks. Why can't you?0
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