Every time someone finds out they will talk about it like it's a bad thing saying he might bring me down and everything was a negative. The main reason was he lost his job but he is doing small odd jobs like: farming, plumbing, construction, mechanic, painting, he'said even planning on delivering papers and telephone books, I found a website for him that shows any jobs hiring near him and he will continue doing odd jobs until he finds a real one. He doesn't have a car only because the money he did make at his last job he gave the money to his mom ( single mom of three and his brother has mental behavior problems) but no one seems to care, I honestly think he's a great guy and I really do like him. But I don't see the big deal of how it's a bad thing?
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Your relationship with this man is yours. Do not let other people influence your decisions. If he is making it work and taking care of family he sounds like a stand up guy to me. the average age difference in marriage is about 7-10 years. How you feel about this guy is all that matters, your friends won't be the ones bring with him0