I have problems talking to attractive girls because I think they are too good for me, so I basically don't even notice them and don't look at them. I also have some own experience with this: I think I've become better looking compared with the past, but for some reason in the past girls often approached me and talked to me, though I was too shy to answer them. Now nobody approaches me, they just stare while I am not looking and turn away when I notice them. For some reason they become less shy if I make a fault and show my real nature, maybe that lowers me in their eyes and makes me look more approachable. Is it really true or just a coincidence?
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Most Helpful Girl
While I u detstanda you're intimidated, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. If you're confident and believe beautiful women like you, you're more likely to attract one.
Men would literally reject me because they thought I was too beautiful to like them. When i met my boyfriend, I didn't find him that attractive at first, but he always says he dates attractive women and he believes that's attainable for him. Lo and behold he grew on me... It's all about attitude.1
Most Helpful Guy
Yes absolutely. They can choose to date whoever they want. Why would they choose an average guy? No matter how imperfect attractive girls are, they still insist they are perfect because almost every guy has reminded them of that.
Do whatever it takes to kill your attraction towards attractive females. Get all those hormones out. You are MUCH better off dating women that are less attractive. They save you money and headache. Also, you will stop having that feeling that the attractive women will never give you the time of day. You will be free from that.1