Usually I can deicpher when someone is into me but this one guy is tricky.
Go to same gym and college. Whenever I see him I usually say hi, he smiles and says hi back and I catch him glancing at me a lot from time to time. However he doesn't make an effort to come talk to me/get to know me and usually I say hi if I see him but today he looked really annoyed and when we walked by each multiple times today other he didn't even acknowledge me, even when I smiled he just looked straight ahead with a grumpy expression on his face...
a) leave it and move on he wants to talk to me he can make the effort but if he is annoyed at me for being friendly then I should back off.
B) be straight up and honest say I want to get to know him more and hang out
c) continue to be nice and Friendly
note: im just confused
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lol of course the guy is interested in you. Shy guys find it really hard to talk to their crush so they will compensate by stealing a glance when he thinks you don't notice or making an effort to be around you when there is no reason for him to be around. Also he might have an idealist view of you thinking your perfect giving up hope that a girl like you would be interested in him hence him becoming grumpy and coming of as cold personality when he is not.
I think a combination of option B and C will work. Just be friendly with him and occasionally ask him to hang out with you. You might have to try a few times just don't be too forward or he might get nervous and shy. I would try that for a month or two and if he still won't hang out with you after that I think you need to move on.0