We are texting for a few days now and speak in school during the breaks... She is so nice to me and that is confusing because I think that she is just polite and if I ask her out that she will politely refuse. I catch her staring in my direction sometimes but that has nothing to mean. We share the same interests and it seems too good to be true for me. Please help :) thanks
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Don't ever ask a girl out on a date.
Seriously. Take the whole "ask a girl out on a date" and throw it in the bin. It's terribly ineffective and a total waste of time.
Instead, just focus on doing things you want to do, and invite cool people you come across in life to do those things with you. Wait for them to earn your trust and don't give it away so freely, but stay friendly and open to doing new things and meeting new people.
When you boil it all down, it's a complete waste of time for guys to think about whether something is a date or not anyway. Ultimately, if the girl you're out with is interested in you, then you can just get an ice cream together in between meetings at work, and she will consider that a date. If she doesn't like you, you can take her to watch the sunset at the beach and serenade her with a guitar and she'll still keep you in the friendzone.
Be you. Be an awesome version of you, and let the girls deal with this dating bullshit. It's out of your control anyway.1