Why is it so difficult for me to fall in love with someone?

I'm 23 years old and I only fell in love with a boy when I was 16 ... I do not feel anything for him today, but I remember how I felt when I was with him until today and the feeling was very intense.
I dated two guys after that but I never really fell in love with them (like thinking about him all day , getting butterflies on my stomach, not sleep at night thinking about him etc etc) I only liked them a little. I want so much to fall in love again... like feel a real passion, not a warm feeling.
Am I never going to feel it again? I am worried :(


Most Helpful Guy

  • That feeling doesn't come often but when it does is a memory to hold on to. You will feel it again. You are still young and have a lot of life to live yet


Most Helpful Girl

  • I have no clue. I have the same issue.


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What Guys Said 2

  • Love isn't an emothion, its something thats built love

  • hun i fell in love at 17 and we were together for years and its over

    and I've talked to 2 other girls since then
    and it was never the same

    im single and plan on staying single until this is fixed
    so im going back to see her
    cause i need closure in certain things
    and i hope she listens


What Girls Said 1

  • Yea, that was just puberty at work. It's unlikely to happen again...