I became friends with a guy at college and he asked me to dinner at a restaurant then a movie at the theater. This is the first time I've ever been asked out. He's super outgoing and easy to talk to but I'm still nervous because I've grown up very sheltered.
What should I expect?
Most Helpful Guy
a lot of talking. first dates are getting to know each other's basic info. have plenty of stories available. dress semi casual but look good nonetheless. suggest walking and talking to help make it less awkward if you think you're not getting comfortable with him. he suggested a movie so maybe expect him to try to kiss you or hold your hand during the movie.
if at any point you feel he's getting to touchy and wants more than what you want from a first date, just start telling him how good of a time you had and that we should plan something again. it'll let him know that you're done with the date and want to go home. Unless he's one of those agressive guys that can't control his emotions then just knee him in the balls and take a cab home.
oh, bring money for a cab in case you need one.0
Most Helpful Girl
You need to talk to him and get to know him. Ask about his family, siblings and try to get an idea of his relationship with his parents. What he does for a living and if he likes it. Does he have any future plans or goals. Use dinner as an opportunity to get to really know him, because when you get into the movie you're not going to be able to talk much. Learn enough about him so you can determine if you want a second date or not. You don't have to kiss or sleep with him if you don't want to.0