Yes I was 12 or 13 when I had my first crush. It took me a while to get over him, and since then, I never want to fall in love, again. Trust me, it is going to work. If I don't fall in love again, then I would be the happiest human alive. Who here want to call me crazy for believing that? 😅
Yes its hard. I never wanted to leave my first but she did. I wasn't her first relationship so it may have been easier on her, I don't know. However, I think it'll be easier to forget when I find the one and then maybe I'll realize why it didn't work out with the first one.
I'm still with my first love, have been "officially" since sixteen I was madly in love with him then it's just grown since then. He's the one, the only I ever want! So it would be horrible for either of us to lose the other. I cannot ever imagine having to or wanting to forget him, he's been my BFF since I was five. So to us it's almost like we already have a lifetime together. Something drastic would have to happen to pry us apart.