Whenever a guy has really liked me, I have never gotten "that feeling".
Then when I feel like I have "that feeling" it turns out they don't like me as much as I liked them.
I can't tell if it's actually a problem or just a coincidence. I don't mentally do it on purpose obviously... so I don't know how to fix it.
- I think it's a problem, you should figure that out7%(1)13%(4)Vote20%(3)
- Ehh it's just a coincidence27%(4)33%(10)Vote40%(6)
- I do the same thing60%(9)43%(13)Vote27%(4)
- I've never had someone really like me6%(1)11%(3)Vote13%(2)
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I think the problem lies right in the very first sentence:
'Whenever a guy has really liked me, I have never gotten "that feeling".'
I think you need to find a guy that you like, regardless if he likes you or not. The way you describe it, seems like you're just trying to correspond to their feelings with feelings that you have to fabricate.1