Well, I'm 19 years old and I'm dating a 2 years younger girl. We are dating for 2-3 months already.. She asked me out, even though she didn't know me well, but I thought she is really cute and girl gamers are pretty.. Rare, y'know.
But somehow, I feel like she asked me out just because I look smiliar to her 'idols' (I'm Asian.)
Because all she talks about is literally KPop and her Asian 'husbands' or how she calls them.
I really like her, but she looks like she doesn't care about me.
Is it only my imagination or should I break up with her?
Most Helpful Girl
I don't find this to be only your imagination. I see that she is projecting her ideals [KPOP Idols] to you because your Asian, and she more and likely is only with you because you fulfill that fantasy of hers. So if this is a bother to you, you better speak up now, because your no trophy. And you better make it clear what your reasons and intentions for dating her as well. I don't find this to be fair to you. She's really obsessed with the whole K-Pop thing. I wouldn't be surprised if you get a bit jealous with her Asian 'husbands' mantra. Its not healthy. And if she is not careful she is going to lose you because she puts them up as her 'gods' before having you [as her reality].1
Most Helpful Guy
I think she probably just likes the idea of being with an Asian guy a lot. The "Asian 'husbands' comment" is probably due to her lacking some social skills. If you like her a lot, I wouldn't worry about her being into KPop. That will probably change a lot over the next 5 or so years.0