I met this guy I recently went out with for a date, and he seems to be a really good person, caring, a gentleman.. but I didn't feel attracted to him at all, I don't know if I should continue seeing him or not, 'cause he made it clear that he still wants to see me again and in a lot of different occasions too.
I don't know if anything can change if I decide to continue seeing him..
Most Helpful Guy
Unlike men, women seem to have the capacity to develop an attraction based on non-physical factors as they become more familiar with a guy. If all of the other pieces of the puzzle are in place, why not invest a little time to see what, if anything, might develop?1
Most Helpful Girl
I used to do this. I thought it was nice of me to try dating them even though I didn't find them attractive. I told myself I might change my mind once I got to know them but I think deep down you know when this just isn't true.
I say if he is an average looking guy and you really thing that his personality could make u fancy him then sure, see him again. But if you find him unattractive or dont think u could start to like the way he looks a bit more then no amount of personality is going to change your mind. Don't waste his time, it doesn't make you nice to keep dating him if ultimately you are gonna dump his ass and he's gonna have to wonder 'what did I do wrong?'0