i've been really good friends with this girl for about a year, and i have gotten strong feelings for he. but I don't know if she feels the same way, she acts like she does but says otherwise. I just want to know if there is a way out.
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Based on your other question. It seems clear that she is not ready to start a relationship with you. If you want to get out of the friend zone, you have to first get deeper into the friend zone. Something is scaring her, from becoming more than friends with you at this point.
Lighten things up again with her, by continuing to joke but don't bring up your feeling again with her. Find times when she is bothered and genuinely ask how she is doing and just listen. Don't touch her during these times unless she starts to cry, then just hug her as a friend. Once she realizes that she can come to you with deeper problems and you genuinely care without having alternative motive of getting with her, she might come around. Only then can you bring up your feelings again without losing your friendship.0
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