I do not see a problem with a girl wising up and not wasting her time on men if they put her through shit, i have seen men on here who have been hurt and instead of improving themselves, they blame women and call them all whores and gold diggers and cry.
I have been hurt by men but i do not come on here and blame men
Wait who told you that it is a problem? Focusing on yourself after break ups is a good and healthy thing to do whether you are a man or a woman. I think you clearly do have some bitterness tho "wasting her time on men" and all that. So just focus on yourself, get comfortable with yourself again and take all the time you need to get over the guy who hurt you. Dating comes after you're over it.
Because they all say that, but in reality they're just the same as the bitter men that whine on here all day about women and all their adjectives. They do no "improving", and just constantly mope and whine about how it's all the opposite sex's fault that they're single. You can see like one every minute on the questions feed...
Well you can't say that anymore :P and to be honestly, you can't just let some dogs bite you and consider all the other dogs the same as those ones, but as kendrick said, " once she rounds the corner, she'll be turning dike", section 80 high power
I understand that someone can be hurt but behaving like that is not good and it's unfair just like generalizing people. Everyone's different and you just haven't met the right person. Maybe valuable people are in minority, but they still exist and I am not going to generalize people, because I respect this minority.