I recently found out on gag, that my guy is an omega guy.
He has no social skills and he doesn't know.
He is obsessed with star wars and builds his identity around it.
He can sometimes be really boastful to the point where you can't stand it.
I am not sure anyone really likes him and he doesn't care.
I don't know... when we first Started dating he was already talking about having a boy... and during our few days of talking... he kept on asking me to marry him.
I don't know if I missed all These signs because I was too excited that I was reconnecting with an old childhood friend. Now thinking about it, I totally would have been freaked out and left.
What about you? Would you date an omega guy or girl?
Would you date an omega guy or girl?
I recently found out on gag, that my guy is an omega guy.
What Guys Said 21
I have never heard of Omega male before now. I looked it up, and wow! I used to be one! In my 30 years of life I have known a ton of them (and I never liked them because they are annoying.) I can give a ton of insight into their minds I think because I used to be one!
So as a kid, I was not allowed to shower. We were extremely poor, and I wore the same clothes every single day. From grade 1 to grade 10 when I got a job and bought clothes and shit. So obviously, everyone hated that smelly dirty poor kid. I was very quiet and kept to myself until I was an adult.
When I went into the adult world (military lol) I was instantly hated. I had zero social skills, ZERO. Any time I talked to someone the shit just came out awfully. I became overly quiet because I recognized that I was incapable of normal social interaction. The difference between me and other Omega males, is that my childhood I was tormented endlessly, everyone hated me. I'm a big bastard, and I beat up just about every bully in my school, his older brother, and at 16 I was fighting adults. I wasn't mean, I was simply targeted for being different.
Anyways, these crazy "Omega" males grow up where people don't insult them enough for being how they are. They are shunned and cast aside, but they have a small circle of friends and they never make fun of eachother or ever be mean. That's how normal males teach eachother social skills, by making fun of them for doing stupid shit. I think "Omega" males are simply guys who had shitty childhoods, and were denied the ability to learn social skills by their peers because they were different for some reason and it just snowballed into this thing where nobody likes you.
As for me? Well, the military helped me break out of my shell a decent amount. But other "Omega" males I knew did not, and will not because they just don't get harassed badly enough for being that way. I separated, and got married! Being married taught me a ton. After 5 years we are split up, getting a divorce (she's abusive and i ended it if you wanted to know.) Now I'm mostly normal. I used to have extreme social anxiety, and talking to a cute girl was impossible. These days I have fun talking to everyone I meet and they always seem to like me instead of the hate I used to get. I talk to beautiful women all the time and its easy and fun and they seem to enjoy talking with me. I feel like I have a whole new life and it's amazing!
So the moral is... I guess "omegas" can change... sometimes.1
I think people really need to stop taking terms relating to wolves and their packs and using them to title humans.
What your guy is, is a schmuck plain and simple or possibly autistic not a alpha, not a beta not an omega.
FYI an Omega is an Alpha that lost a fight to a Beta the Beta became the Alpha and the leader of the Pack and the Former Alpha become an Omega when the new Alpha shunned him and exiled him. And Omega's are true outcasts in every definition of the word, they're shunned, they starve to death or get barely the leftovers left behind by the other pack members and is often humiliated. Only way not to be an Omega is to kill the current Alpha and take his place, exerting dominance over the pack.
So tell me how your man is anything like that since humans love to relate the wolf counter parts to humans.
Omega is just a stupid term made up by the jackass who probably started calling himself an alpha and others beta in the first place.
You wanna know the sad truth Alpha's are absolutely nothing without beta's and even omega's like a king without a kingdom and subjects.1
I didn't know what you meant, so I looked up what it meant to have an Omega personality type:
The lack of social skills doesn't bother me, because I myself lack a lot of social skills. In fact, I feel a lot more comfortable with awkward or introverted people. However, the emotional distance concerns me because I am a very affectionate person, and if she failed to reciprocate, I would not be able to connect with her.2
I would date an omega girl, but not if she acted like the guy you described. Actually, the things that make a girl alpha or beta or omega are really not important to guys the same way girls OBSESS over who's the alpha. If a girl is quiet and shy and socially awkward and obsessed with peculiar interests, those are positives, not negatives. If a girl is way too social and only interested in the same stupid crap as everyone else and she's constantly flirting with everybody, those are negatives, not positives. So which one is really the alpha and which is the omega? It's kind of the opposite for girls.0
Mmmmm no social skills really turns me off, so I suppose not.1
Well.. my girl is a bit like that. So, yeah, I guess I would. But it's tough. She's the toughest girl I've ever dated. Way worth it, and I love her to death, but yeah, it's tough sometimes.0
So you found a man you like but because he's not "cool enough" you want to dump him? WTF is wrong with you?
Social skills are important1
Do you love him?
Yes - then it doesn't matter.
No - then it doesn't matter0
More importantly, where do you stand with him now?0
Never heard of the term.0
A self reliant Omega female, why not? She'd at least have to have social skills.0
Just know that 99%of people saying yes they would date, are liars😂😂1
what is omega0
i prefer delta girls
Like the biblical omega or the animal hierarchy omega?0
What Girls Said 8
The alpha and omega shit is dumb.
Your boyfriend has issues if he's talking about marriage immediately. But just being shy and liking Star Wars doesn't make him an unworthy person. If you don't like guys like that don't lead them on. I find it shallow but whatevs1
Most likely not. I can't be around guys like that for long.1
This guy seems too intense, talking about kids and marriage already. Personally I'd run0
i announced that i was an omega on here a few weeks ago and got downvoted a lot... didn't know it had a meaning0
Just out of curiosity, what traits of his attracted you to him?0
I don't believe in those categories. Most people are awesome in some ways and lame in others. It's a matter of fitting these two jigsaw puzzles together right.1
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