Personally I find it extremely emasculating to date a woman single with children. It will me feel like a "man-gina" who needs to look after the kids for the bad ass who knocked her up, in order to lay with her. It would completely destroy my very own sense of self worth. I'd rather be single. However having no string attached sex is fine.
On the flip side, if I was divorced with kids and she was in the same situation, then I guess it wouldn't make me feel that way.
Just wondering how other guys and girls feel about this one.
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Most Helpful Girl
If it were the other way around probably not, I know it may sound heartless but even though I would enjoy his children they wouldn't be my own, maybe when i'm older my feelings may change but I feel like I could only love a child so deep if they were my own. Never mind the fact that I may have to deal with the drama from the baby mama, or schedule our dating and alone time around the children. I have nannied and babysat in my life and taking care of kids is no joke especially if theyre young.0