okay so i like this guy but i have no idea how to tell him and ask him out i'm not really a popular girl and i'm kinda awkward... help?
Guys, how would you prefer to be approached by a girl who liked you?
What Guys Said 22
It really doesn't matter. Guys are easy. There shouldn't be any preference. Just walk up and say "I like you." Awkward is okay. Almost any guy will be very pleased that a girl would walk up to him, even if he doesn't reciprocate. Easiest way to do it is just don't think about it. Like jumping into a cold pool. Just get it over with nice and quick.
It's really simple. Don't overcomplicate it.
Ah, a note would also be good like Alex917 stated. That would actually be the easiest way. And you wouldn't have to face rejection in the face, if it comes to that.1
Just go up to him and be straightforward and honest. Don't beat around the bush, just do it.
Guys are easy to approach, cause most girls don't approach, so we are very welcoming when a girl does it, we respect her more and are glad she did what no girl does.1
Well you're only 13 so I wouldn't worry too hard about it. All I can say is one thing I think everyone here would agree with. Confidence is the absolute most important thing. I mean sure, if you weigh 500 pounds and your face looks like a monster nobody is gonna like you. But if you have confidence, that takes away your awkwardness, it takes away your shyness. It makes people see you much better than you think you are. So if you can learn to be confident that will help you in dating, and in everything else in life really. Even if he rejects you and laughs at you, if you have confidence and you brush it off like it ain't shit that he laughed, nobody will want to make fun of you for it, other guys will see you as confident and become interested in you. Learning to be confident is hard, but you're so young you have tons of time lol.1
I've never even heard of a guy caring how "popular" a girl is, and as for "awkward," we call that "cute." Just grow a spine and tell him flat-out in less than six words exactly how you feel. That's what guys like. DIRECTNESS. No nonsense, no confusion, straight and to the point! And he still might reject you, and if he does, to hell with him! There's like millions of lonely guys in this world, trust me, if you actually bother to look, you can't miss 'em.3
Try to do some homework with him. I remember when I was 13 that's what I did. Kinda still do it but anyways
Do some homework. Eat lunch. Chill a bit... let it ride, don't push
this girl liked me in school but she never admitted it
then when i got a girlfriend she finally said something about it and i told to late3
Guys won't take hints, we are definitely not on the same level girls are for body language. Just start up conversation with him, find out what he likes and if he wants to hang out sometime. He will answer and you will know what to do next.1
Just introduce yourself (if he doesn't know who you are), tell him you want to keep in touch, and ask him for his phone number. If he's interested, he'll give it to you.1
just being approached by a girl, no matter how, would already be a big improvement lol1
If it's too awkward to talk to him, pass him a note. But keep the note simple, not a love letter. Just say "your cute" and your name and number. that's it. Let him do the rest.2
Be brave. I he rejects you then learn from your mistake and whenever you like someone else try again in a different way, but to answer your question, I prefer to be approached by a girl straight up, so she just comes over and tells me she likes me.1
id like her to come up to me shy and blushing and try to get to know me and then tell me how she feels1
For me, being approached is overall flattering lol1
I'd like it if she came up and said wow your the hottest guy I have ever seen, can I make out with you? Lol jokes aside, id like it if she was herself, whether confident, shy, klutzy, awkward or whatever her personality is. Also showing at least some interest I may glean so I know if she may be interested or not0
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