I'm 19 and I've never been in a relationship. I have never even been kissed. People are always shocked to hear this because I'm often told that I'm gorgeous and should model or become a movie star. I am starting to feel that my looks are actually holding me back. I have very full lips (often told they are like kylie jenner lips) except I was born with mine. Men always approach me for sex or bl*wjobs and no one ever even TRIES to get to know me. I'm extremely intelligent and able to make anyone laugh. I have a kind heart and I know that I would have a lot to offer in a relationship but no one even gives me a chance. From the moment a man sees me his mind is on sex. Sometimes, they are bold enough to open the conversation by asking for a bl*wjob. It's starting to make me depressed. Is there anything I can do?
How can I get guys to see me as 'girlfriend material'?
What Guys Said 15
Well the first thing I suggest is to make it known to your date that your not putting out in any way until your married or engaged. That chases away a lot of guys right there that only want sex. After that I guess dress modestly. I suggest a nice shirt depending on where you are a long sleeve or short sleeve. Along with a long skirt and some nice shoes. Also act more like a lady which is an attitude and having an air about you. Have respect for yourself only spend time with the guys that you see as worth it or as your friends.0
Stop using stupid dating apps they are basically for hooking up. It's like arranging a date carigslist and blaming men when it goes wrong. Duh you are basically using apps that people use to find strangers to have sex with. Go to a library and dress cute but not overtly sexy. Take classes at a University but spend time in library later in the semester all the idiots would have dropped out or they will not go to the library.
The problem is how "YOU" are trying to find someone to date if you use okcupid, dating websites, and tender you will find a large amount of men that want to get in your pants. Stop using these things to find a date and you will have way fewer problems.0
Pick better people to hang around, it sounds like you have a bad group of friends that aren't bring the right people into your life, you can't change your features you have to embrasse them, your smart cool, you have hobbies an interest, even better! Keep going an just enjoy yourself, you dont need a relationship to prove that your good enough for someone0
Very good-looking and perhaps a tad bit unapproachable (because of your body language and perhaps the company you keep), so you only get approached by cocky players and bad boys. Go approach more serious guys.0
"im not that kind of girl down to get on her knees for you, sorry. im Worth more than a quick fuck. Thanks but no thanks, seeyabye"
something along those lines. Stand up for yourself and dont conform to a world of sluts and idiot males.1
Are you living in the ghetto or around a lot of black guys?0
you can't its our choice
and with the way people are today half will see you as sex
the other half
will wanna get to know you
and that tiny 000000000.1232323 percent wants you as a girlfriend0
Don't look for a relationship.
Get involved with things you enjoy.
You'll meet someone worth it through that.
Date less obnoxious men.0
Talk to them.
You don't see someone as girlfriend material without spending time with them.0
What Girls Said 3
"I feel like my looks are holding me back"
Yup that's it 😂😂😂😂😂0
depends on how you present yourself and what you write in your dating profile.
anyone ask you that in person? and how do you respond verbally?0
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