Hi there. I don't mean to offend some girls out there.. but why do some of them like to brag about their boyfriend? I never had a boyfriend before, and i feel a little shitty and annoy when some girls in my class brag about their boyfriend... for instance, a few girls in my class brag about their boyfriend everyday on how sweet they are blah blah blah... Are we suppose to care? -_- Thanks for making feel like crap
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Well, *some* people do it because they feel delighted and/or empowered when people are jealous of them.
However, perhaps they're not bragging so much as they are just talking about them and you are *perceiving* it as bragging. Frankly, I have found in most cases it's the latter.
I would say it's best to understand that they are happy they are in love. I believe this serves as a reminder to you that you're not currently in a relationship, which understandably is saddening to you. The wisest thing is to understand that they're not doing it to brag or bring you down (in most cases).
I believe what's making you feel like crap is that you aren't in a relationship, you would like to be, and their talking reminds you of this.
The solution is two steps. Try your utmost to enjoy the life you have as a single woman while every day taking steps to make yourself emotionally and physically attractive to the type of man you want (and enjoying an interesting life goes a long way to attracting people).1