I was seeing someone for about 5 months, not exclusively and we were open to seeing other people on the side whilst dating each other, let's call him Man1. I went on two dates with another guy (Man2), who was just my type and we got on really well. Thing is, is that I knew I was falling for Man1 at the time and I reluctantly said to Man2 that I wasn't interested in taking things further with him right now, (I didn't let on that I really liked him.) He took it well and we haven't spoken since, which was a month ago. Anyway, Man1 decided to end things with me due to health reasons, so now I'd like to get in touch with Man2 again, but my dilemma is - would he be interested? Is it worth a shot? And what on earth should I say?
How do I get back in touch with this guy I initially rejected (full story below)?
What Guys Said 4
Maybe he's interested but honestly, being put second is not a great feeling. Remember that if you're gonna contact him.1
No man wants to be your back up plan. If he accepts you back, he has a very low self-esteem.0
I love this site for this reason. Guys, read this, absorb it, read it again and remember it the next time you are on a date. You are nothing but another option, just a piece on a board that she shuffles around to suit her needs.0
What Girls Said 3
That's something you need to decided but being second chioice is not a great feeling. Im in a current situation like this but not with two men. I want to be with this man but im moving on because im not being put first and Im being treated like an option. All i can say is good luck.0
He may be interested. You ended on good terms, just send him a message with an inside joke or something you know he will find funny? Just to break that initial ice and then ask how he's been and keep chatting from there?0
You can try but I'm not sure if he would want to or not since you have already rejected him once0
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