Being a bad texter a deal breaker?
I know this guy we have been on three dates, but have known each other for a few months prior and only recently met.
Things seem to be going well, he has told me how much he likes me. Planned a few things in next few weeks..
Have to say though he is really spoiling himself by being SO bad at communication, I am not one for constant texting, but our exchanges go something like this.
He initiates sometimes around 7pm, of very early, 7am. I reply he either doesn't reply for 3 days (I might not have asked him a direct question) there's no pushing the conversation on from him etc and no calls (I think he thinks calling is a BIG thing, as he'll say "might give you an unscheduled call sometime..") like I should see that as amazing. Baring in mind, he has called once.
It's just really frustrating, thing is he KNOWS he's a bad texter as he's said before (have always been wary of people who say this.) if you are meant to be so excited about someone, you put your best foot forward with them and show them my being consistent, right?
He said on our second date "I haven't wanted to text you much as I haven't wanted to fuck things up.." Confusing.
Between our last date & now (a week) i had about three messages off him.
His failure with communication is really dampening my enthusiasm.
Most Helpful Guy
And typical female who expect men to always come to them and initiate. I bet you aren't even interesting and reply one word replies.
God women always like to call men boring or some shit but never self reflect on themselves.
Most Helpful Girl
Being a bad texter is an excuse. Being a bad texer means you find it difficult to express yourself down in" writing". It doesn't mean you respond 3 days later , and never initiate contact
Communication is like oxygen to all relationships. Without it the relationship can't survive.
The situation you described would be a deal breaker for me. It shows lack of interest on his part1
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