im 30, she's 34, dating 6 months. what would your reaction/reply be to this scenario?
she has longtime male friend who is older than her, wealthy, family friend and plays paintball and xbox regularly. i was never allowed to meet him bc she said he gets weird around people, but told me many times she never will have feelings for him beyond friend, told me he was aware of me, but never told me what she said to him.
While dating, we hang out 3+ times weekdays only. they hang out approx 2 weekends a month compared to my 1 weekend total in 6 months. He paid for skydiving, skiing, hiking, overnight weekend camping trips just them, star gazing, and she dropped a bomb on me in July that they were going to germany for two weeks together in sept. (now). i know she can't afford that trip solely. never inviting me or being directly honest when and ehat she does, after telling her i want to do those things with her, she said end of summer she'll have more weekends available bc she planned her summer before we got together.
im not jealous or needy, but i do have anxiety issues and she's well aware snd supportive ususlly, but c'mon right? she assures me there's nothing there at all, never kiss or feel that way towards him, but lately she's been lying a bit more and withdrawn. he's also non active air force like her ex before me, rugged type and friends of hers have told me he was around during her last few relationships too and said she never would date him but also wouldn't stop hanging out with him either.
she's also very selective, private and deceptive about her life, social media posts about guys of past me and this friend and won't add ever add me to her fb and has yet to post any pics if us together or mentions of me. i get the sense she's hiding me from something or someone.
Am i being used for weekday admiration and stability vs his weekend huge trips? she gets upset when bring it up nicely, throws a tantrum even when caught in a lie, then insults me for being too sensitive.
She got me excited for weeks in advance about my birthday, turning 30. On my bday night, she sent an old social media pic via text, yet lied she took it that mornng, no gift, bday card, anything. she was 30 mins late to dinner and then fell asleep cold 10 mins into movie after. I said the next day it was kinda rude to sleep and replied that she took time out of her night to be with me even though she was extremely tired and that should say something. no remorse or respect. my fault.
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Leave that bitch. You are too good 4 her0