like I said, being in restaurants or places with people makes me nervous and uncomfortable to the point where I have to leave it's hard to explain but I wasn't always like this, I went into my shell in high school and pretty much had no friends and in college I took most of my courses online and the few courses I did go to campus, I never talked to anybody and no one ever talked to me, now the only times I go out are to pick up groceries or get clothes quickly or going kayaking and bike riding and other activities I enjoy by myself, I have no Facebook or social media and I pretty much wouldn't have anybody to friend on social media, any help on how to break out of this because I sure as hell will never meet women following the routine I currently have even though I enjoy my life. Also I mostly only seem to get along with older people and people, I should also add that when I was in school and started becoming more anti-social people used to make fun of me and call me an old man or a loser because I didn't want to do certain things that I considered stupid, reckless, or outright dangerous, I've been told by people my age that I am..."boring" or "unexciting" and I know girls hate guys that are boring and I sure as hell am not funny either, so any help? I really don't want to put on a facade either because sooner or later women will figure out the real me you know, so any help?
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I don't think you are boring. I think you need to find someone who takes an interest in the same things you do. Maybe join a Kayaking club or a bike riding group. Find stuff you enjoy doing and meet people who also enjoy doing those things. You are bound to find a girl who will like doing those things with you.0