I am a really shy 24 year old guy, and have never had any experience with a women.
This makes me really insecure, sad, and lowers my confidence...
It feels like most girls my age have gone through love, heart break and have had sex with at least two guys...
I haven't done any of that, So I have no idea what I am doing... and me being inexperienced and shy I have no clue on how to get a girl :(
My second problem is, I know I have to accept it... but I feel weird not being a girls first... because of my own insecurity... I really don't know why I feel weird, but I sometimes have trouble accepting it...
How to stop being insecure about my inexperience?
Girls don't really like inexperience, so if I am myself... it's a massive turn off :(
If I play it cool, act confident... I do a lot better but I get really anxious as things progress and end up slipping and ruining everything.
Most Helpful Girl
Lmfao! I'm turning 25 this Friday coming and I've never had a boyfriend or had sex either. I just haven't found anyone who's worth having a relationship with. Been on dates, wasn't physically attracted to them and hand nothing in common with them. We aren't the only ones, there are plenty if people in the same boat as us. I have no issues with confidence, I'm. knowledgeable but inexperienced. I'm not ashamed of it either. I'm just not the type who enjoys sleeping around for the hell of it. I'm also quite fussy about guys. Its important for me to find the balance of physical attraction, personality and compatibility before I consider getting into relationships. Try to stay focused on what you are doing, taking baby steps at a time is good start. Don't try to rush things.0
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Most Helpful Guy
It takes practice. Don't let it control your life but don't give up on it either. If you act like it's not so important and that you're dating a girl for yourself, then your confidence will go up.0