I met a guy about three weeks ago. At first I thought he liked one of my friends but turns out he is into me. It took me a while to process that and during that time he we got closer.. I didn't want to be rude plus I thought I liked him so when he tried to kiss me I didn't pull back. This weekend we went out with one of his friends and a couple of mine. And apparently his friend is so damn sexy whist he is the most childish person I've ever met. How can I show him that I lost my interest in him without loosing his friendship? Is that even possible?
I thought I liked a guy but turns out he is too childish.. How can I turn him down without loosing his friendship?
What Guys Said 4
Just tell him you want to remain friends but you don't think you are ready for a relationship yet.
And just to be clear - the friend of his who is so damn sexy? Yeah he's off the table. If you want to remain friends with this guy there is no way you can pursue his damn sexy friend. That won't happen2
Depends on his personality. You know what to do best to avoid hurting him, As it's your life and you know him better than us. I recommend you try if possible to go gently with it, But try getting your point across, Do not make him misunderstand your intents.1
What Girls Said 1
From reading the below comments he does sound childish. I agree with the others, tell him you are not ready for a relationship and really value him in your life and want to remain friends. If you remain friends and he still acts childish you cut him loose. He may not want to be friends and sadly you need to accept that.
Also yeah , damn sexy friend is defo off the table!1
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