So I dont take it very seriously, but its a bit hard to ignor.
Im on a dating app and i seem to get many matches, and often messages,. The few times the messages actually are from guys im attracted to its always fun and exciting to start with. and in the beginning they guy seems to be very into talking to me. When i feels like it going well or okay, its often that they suddenly lose interest.
I lose interest too if the conversation isn't up tp part, but it happens quite a lot and its a bit hard to not feel like its because im uninteresting. Im sure im not the only girl they message, but it sucks that I can't get a date. Because it seems like im really uniteresting, and it does make me feel like shit It doent matter if i make an effort to aks questions, joke around or anything like that, the guy often seem to lose interest.
Is it my fault? what can i do to at least get one date? I honestly though that getting a date on an app would be easier than i real life, but apparantly not
Most Helpful Guy
The problem with dating apps is people use them for hook ups and people are essentially small, little, insignificant advertisements in an ocean of small, little, insignificant advertisements. A fairly handsome guy is probably attracting interest from lot's of women which makes finding a guy harder as the guys you probably go for are sought after commodities.
Dating apps are not something I would use when looking to find dates.1
Most Helpful Girl
it sounds like the problem is you are fishing in the wrong waters
guys on dating apps are mainly trying to fuck. you may have a great personality and be interesting and all that jazz, but if you dont seem desperate and easy to bed, the guys won't be talking to you long bc their main goal is sex anyway.
there probably isn't anything wrong with you, you're just running into guys who want girls who are desperate for sex and male attention, but you are just too good of a woman0