I have been seeing a guy for almost two months now. We do stuff that couples does, I'd describe us as girlfriend and boyfriend except that we haven't committed to each other. Family and friends knows that we are together so I guess it's exclusive in a way. We haven't talked anything about what we are. At first I just wanted to go with the flow and see what happens but now that I really like him I want to commit. I don't know why he hasn't brought it up and I'm scared that what if he doesn't commit to me? If he won't then I obviously want to get out but how long is it suppose to take? How do you do it and how do you know?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't like to play games and/ or second guess people. I commit right away. If it works it better, if it doesn't you know sooner and haven't wasted your time.
Bottom line though, you commit when neither of you want to be with anyone else and don't want to see the other with anyone else either.0
Most Helpful Girl
Given that you've been seeing each other for several months exclusively, it sounds like you two are already committed.
I've never had a "commitment talk".0