I have this coworker who I kinda like. We're friends and we have tried dating but we're never single at the same time. We have chemistry and we click, conversation is like effortless and we can talk for hours. I'm single but he's not. He's been with the same girl for almost 2 years. We recently hung out and he told me he really wants to try us. He thinks we would make a really good couple. And if we're ever both single, we have decided for sure to try us. My question is if he thinks about us making a good couple and wanting to try us, then shouldn't he break up with his girlfriend? He obviously thinks we have something. It bothers me that he's staying with her, knowing how we both feel. I'm debating even trying us anymore cause I feel he isn't serious. Should I just relax or what should I do?
Should he break up with his girlfriend for me?
What Guys Said 3
If he was happy with her, he would not be talking to you. Pursuing a relationship with you while the other girl still thinks everything is biscuits and gravy is wrong. It is a form of cheating, even though you and he have not had sex (I assume; have you?)
If he would cheat on his current girlfriend and not be honest with her about where his heart is at, he would do the same thing to you. Beware!0
ya, he's monkey branching and could do it to you to-he should have broke up with her THEN had this talk with you. But he didn't and instead gave you a red flag-he's no keeper, he's a monkeybrancher and a scumbag.0
if he does, what makes you thinks he wouldn't do the same to you?0
What Girls Said 3
yeah you should try0
You are allowing men to cheat emotionally. Such small woman.
And we wonder why relationshios nowadays are so messed up. Because you don't give a damn about the girlfriend feelings. Both you and him are selfish.
I would have told him to go talk to his girlfriend when he is single after a few months then talk.
You are lonely and hapoy to get a mans attentin and hapoy to steal him from the girlfriend. Good job0
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