I feel like women always find the brooding and disturbed guys attractive. Now what I mean by disturbed is a guy who has a tourtoured past and soul who shrouds himself in sex, alcohol and drugs to block out the past. These guys always seem to be self destructive and mysterious and I just don't know why women fall for these types over the nice guys with normal lives and a happy past. Can someone tell me why this is?
Most Helpful Girl
What it is, is that those kind of women will go for the "tourtoured past and soul who shrouds himself in sex, alcohol and drugs to block out the past" and the "mysterious" part of them. Girls for many of them want to change him, make him love her more than life itself, etc. To be honest their wasting their time. Guys don't change just because of a girl. They change because they want to. They can be influence to change because of her. But you can't make the unwilling do what they are unwilling to do. Some know better, others don't. Many women are naïve, and some are out to use. Plus the media, movies, and even video games other than books portrays these kind of men because their conditioning you.
The truth is if the guy wants change, then he needs to get and seek help. Because the moment a girl get's into the picture, either she will get hurt or they both will. He is only being smart by staying out of relationships with women in the dating scene. But guys like that, especially in the GIF is not attractive in my eyes. I don't mind being friends with the person only if they are not a bad influence to me. But if they are and I can't handle it, its goodbye.0
Most Helpful Guy
Lawmakers, along with their prostitutes in the media (i. e. the gatekeepers and agenda setters) are pursuing a multi-pronged approach to make straight sex taboo. There are several ways social engineers are attempting to make heterosexual activity a legal and cultural albatross for men Anglo America and Europe. These are only a few of the ways this agenda is being pursued.
Constructing a “Human Trafficking” facade which is based on mostly spurious claims of women being forced into prostitution, then passing endless laws to combat this phantom enemy (sound familiar to terrorism?)
Passing endless rape laws pushing men farther into a corner with regards to normal heterosexual activity, i. e. the “Josie was drunk” ad campaign and affirmative consent laws
Promoting homosexuality as sacrosanct while prohibition and public shaming still extend to the world’s oldest profession, prostitution; Johns also have their lives and careers ruined around the U. S. by a voyeuristic police force and media
Promoting the view that sexuality is “dirty” and something to be embarrassed about among the Plebeian classes, as something reserved for the elite and well-heeled men
Promoting plague terror for over 30 years, especially a “cooties” campaign for adults as the HIV epidemic (contrary to what we were told in the 1980s and 1990s) remains confined to risk groups and the CDC’s own statistics say heterosexuals could have sex for more than a lifetime and never contract the virus (a nearly 1 in 10,000 chance of spreading the virus through vaginal intercourse)
Passing insane laws which are now making flirting illegal in the UK
Shaming men who have normal heterosexual urges and pushing HR policies which make both sexes behave androgynously
Promoting confusion of male and female genders with the transgender bathroom agenda being pushed by the U. S. government, extending into public schools and down to small children (get them while they’re young)
These are only a few of the ways sex is being made confusing and taboo among heterosexuals in America and Europe. But, there are calls among Neo-Puritans for the state to do even more to “protect” (i. e. pedestalize) women against us “evil” penis-wielding men.0