So I don't mean to categorize all sorority girls into one, narrow category. However, I'm currently dating your stereotypical sorority girls. When I first started college, I swore to myself that I would never deal with that Greek Life stuff (no offense to anyone who engaged in it). But, she seemed down to earth. 4 months in, and I'm realizing I may have made a mistake.
She likes to drink and party. I was never into any of that stuff. I spent my Friday nights studying or relaxing with my ex (girlfriend at the time), and wouldn't have changed a thing.
She also has TONS of guy friends who she goes to lunch with, 1 on 1, parties with, etc. None of my past girlfriends did any of that, they saw it as disrespectful.
I'm more of the outdoorsy type, who prefers to focus on myself and have a small group of very close friends. She's more of the party type, who enjoys having tons of Fraternity and Sorority friends.
I also overheard her male friend mentioning that he really likes her, and went as far as to say that he "loves" her. She still hangs out with him.
Do relationships like this usually work out? Everyone is telling me to call it quits.
Most Helpful Girl
There's nothing wrong with her having guy friends. I don't know how anyone could see friendship as "disrespectful." Actually, it would be disrespectful of you if you told her she couldn't hang out with them anymore.
As for you having different hobbies, that could be a reason to call it off. You could try going to a party and just not drinking, to see if you have fun, and then ask her to just spend a night in one night or try going hiking. See if you can work out these different hobbies and find some compromises.
Another thing to consider is, how close are you to finishing school? Once she graduates, she's not going to be able to party like this so much. So if you really love everything about her except for the partying, you might want to try to make it work until graduation in May. But obviously if you're not graduating for a few more years then you might want to call it quits.0
Most Helpful Guy
no relationships like this don't really work , there sort of fun for the moment and the time they last , I can't see it really working out long term , although she won't be in college forever and might eventually settle down once college is over. its very doubtful she'll stop partying till college is over0