I met up with this guy this week (we met online) and he already wants to meet up with me again tomorrow. Is that too soon? Should I play hard to get? Should I say yes or no? How often would you meet up with someone you just met?
Should I play hard to get?
What Guys Said 9
Here's a My Take I wrote. One of the things it discusses is the need for equality of emotional investment. One big way men invest is through pursuit. Therefore, being a bit less available can cause him to invest more, which is a good thing. It's a balancing act but read this My Take and we'll talk:
If you like him and want a relationship, don't play games with him.
If he falls for the fake you, you don't have a relationship when you become yourself again
If does fall for you, you will never know if he would have fallen for the real you.0
Say yes but play hard-to-get-in-the-sack2
never play hard to get. its a turn off, guys will walk away from girls like that. if you want him show it and tell him how you feel. there's no such thing as too soon, you should be with the person you love or want to love as much as possible.0
Don't play hard to get. That's the stupidest advice anyone can give. If you play hard to get, he will probably a) move on because he thinks you're not interested or b) lose interest.0
Would you like it if a guy played hard to get towards you?0
Play hard to get at your own peril. Most men won't stand for childish games.0
Playing hard to get, just means you won't get got.0
That's so immature.0
What Girls Said 5
Don't play hard to get, it gets confusing and messy real quick. If you like the guy, then say yes and go out with him again. There are really no rules that you have to follow. Just go with what feels right.
No I don't think that is too soon, it means he really likes you. I recently met someone online and we had our first date last Friday, which went very well. He then took me out again to dinner this past Sunday and we had a lot of fun.1
Don't "play hard to get."
Read this. If you wanna meet with him, meet with him, but don't do anything too drastic. Be worth the time.0
No, because it's a manipulative tactic. Most guys like to know where they stand with a girl. He'll just assume you are playing mind games0
No - do not play hard to get. Men and women hate game players.0
Meet up again. Don't give him the cake0
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