Now im not trying to be a dick here but its amazing how low some guys are willing to sink for female attention. there are healthy fit guys in their early 20s-30s chatting women old enough to be their grandmas on most online dating sites.
Some of these old grannies are getting so much attention they LITERALLY have to fight off younger guys with a stick.
Surely a handsome/fit young guy like Jacob should have more then a few likes.. right?
wrong.. dude has like 5 or 6 likes on all his pictures combined lol. i chated with him and he says he's barely getting responses from girls on here. they probably think he's a loser
just in case you're wondering what its like for a mid 20s girl on social media. she is the same age as Jacob (the guy above) and took her selfie from a similar angle. Only difference is she is wearing makeup. these cockroach white knights spawn out of nowhere within seconds to compliment her left and right. this is same behavior from desperate losers women are used to getting every time they go out.
200-400 likes on average per photo and 100+ comments. Every one of those 'likes'/'comments' is a guy ready and willing to bend over backwards to toss her salad
Why are there so many more single men than women? I highly doubt that considering the gender ratio and the division of sexual orientation.
"there are healthy fit guys in their early 20s-30s chatting women old enough to be their grandmas on most online dating sites." It's amusing to me how your example didn't really have a lot of healthy fit guys in their early 20s-30s. Most of those dudes looked pretty old to me and the seemingly few younger ones weren't fit.
"Some of these old grannies are getting so much attention they LITERALLY have to fight off younger guys with a stick." Except for the 29 year old I don't really consider the guys in those to be younger guys as they are within her age range to me. If you were talking about 50s/60s year old gals getting 20s/30s year old dudes I can see but 40-something dudes really?
"Surely a handsome/fit young guy like Jacob should have more then a few likes.. right?" Jacob's not handsome to me. I don't think he's fit he seems more like bulky (ie fat onto of muscle) or just plain fat/chubby.
"Every one of those 'likes'/'comments' is a guy ready and willing to bend over backwards to toss her salad" Dudes can get the same reaction if they're willing to suck any guy's dick and take it up the ass from him.
@Flurr I know the pic is of his face only. Like I said he's not handsome to me and his face suggests a bulky (ie fat ontop of muscle) or just plain fat/chubby body. The MySpace angles don't do much to dissuade that suggestion to me.
What's a MySpace angle? Lol, is that what those pictures are that he posted?
So then what do you find handsome? I understand it's different for everyone but I figure some are generally attractive, I figured Jacob would of been one of those guys, maybe not a stud but fairly attractive. I also figured this about myself hahaha
@Flurr MySpace angle is basically a fat gal/guy angle to make her/him appear thinner or to cutoff their fatness.
My tastes aren't boxy faced, dog like, facial hair dudes with seemingly flared huge noses. Nah Jacob is definitely not attractive to me and pretty much all the gals in my entire social environment. I passed this around my sorority gal pals to show them what it seems dudes think are generally attractive. I knew dudes seem to think 'not deformed' and 'not morbidly obese' made a dude attractive but damn it seems like guys have pretty low standards for male attractiveness.
How does you figuring you are generally attractive work out for you? Do gals approach you? Do gals generally accept your approaches? I find guys who are generally attractive know it by how they easily have options for fucking/dating/relationships.
Well to be honest the majority of girlfriends I've had asked me out first, but that could be because I'm horrible at realizing when I'm being hit on, or picking up signals, like the worst in the world haha. I still get rejected like 90% of the time, various reason not necessarily because of looks, but that's the way it's suppose to be.
I don't think it's sad. People like what they like. Who's to say any of those people don't deserve any attention?
I feel bad for the one guy, but online dating sucks. I've been online many times and don't get many messages at all. Let alone responses to messages I send. Some people are just lucky, regardless of everything.
I don't think this proves there's more single men than women. All the women on this example would seem single. Why would they be on there otherwise? So I'm not really sure what point you are trying to make here.
im not trying to make a point im asking a question. again, why do overweight/unhealthy women have so many more options than healthy fit men? that is the question im trying to figure out
Why do overweight/unhealthy women and men not deserve attenion? I feel like this is exactly what you are implying with the question.
Now, as for the older women. Men that age are most likely wanting companionship. I've encountered this online as well. Older men really trying to push for a relationship right away. Maybe their spouse died and they are lonely or maybe they are divorced. Either way, kids grew up and now they are by themselves. Older people in general like to have someone to spend time with. Some people are okay by themselves. But when you are younger it's easier. There are so many things to do, friends and such. But as you get older, well sadly friends die and people get involved in their own lives so much. It becomes lonely as you get older if you don't ahve someone.
Yeah dating sites are like that. Guys like to pile onto womens profiles. It happens here too. Just look at the pink and blue ratio of followers on any active Pink account on this website.
But you're trying to compare the amount of likes to actual relationships women have? Doesn't seem like accurate data.
Those older women are very unattractive! What's with those horrid tattoos? Those are the worst tattoos I've ever seen! Those guys are way too thirsty and probably think those women have money?
The issue isn't one on the end of the men, it's an issue with the female perception of average... Women don't believe that average is a statistical normality, they believe it to be a sensorial issue. Where men see average as top of the bell curve or within the standard deviation, women consider that if they feel something is and their friends feel that it also is that it must be average. The issue is that when compared side by side, women's perception of average tends to be only the top 20% of any given statistic especially pertaining to attractiveness of men.
There isn't. I don't know where you got this idea from?
There is approximately 1 male for every 1 female in this world. That means that, assuming most of us are in a monogamous relationship, there is 1 single female for every 1 single male.
Your mistake might be thinking that online dating is an accurate approximation of the population. Last I heard there were 2 guys for every girl on Tinder and 9 guys for every girl on POF.
But yea I agree with you... most online guys are scum and literally have no idea how to have a decent conversation. I mean how hard is it to say something more than "Hey"?
Oh simple, Most girls have the best options for picking Guys and can just hand pick the guy they want to date while we guys like me don't get most choices in anything in life, I see I girl I want to date I try to chat her up and then ask if she dating, most of the time it's yes or she wishes she can date a certain type of guy and I'm not the type, so I say fuck it and move on and the cycle repeats, Dating today for an average joe like me is fucked and it sucks might as well take my dating life out back and put a shotgun to it's head and pull the trigger cause it might as well be dead.
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The reason is due to a combination of undersexulized males, over sexulized females, a lack of standards from men coupled with not understanding their own self worth and value.
Then you have men buying into the myths about women not wanting sex as much as they do along with the media over inflating women's egos and stroking their ego everywhere while doing the opposite to men.
I always find this question weird. Like, how can their possibly be more single men than women? Like if a girl is dating someone... well presumably it's a man who isn't single. And if a girl is single, then the guy is going to be too.
In the world as a whole maybe, but depends on your area. A couple hours away from me in London, On, it's the other way around, more women in their 20s than men.
Hahahaha and the best part is some of these women think they can do better than the guy they are with or was with or is on a date with because of all this attention... nahhhh lol, come on they're just desperate.
This is false for a few reasons, but the main reason being that there are roughly the same amount of women to men in the world. Most people in the modern day are single, and social media is one reason why.
I suppose it's possible that women may be more picky than men? Since they have more choices, they would end up rejecting more of them. For guys, they take what they can get. I'm just offering my guess on this.
BS a lot of them are average (aveage bone structure, skin quality, height, etc) many are lightyears above these behemoths that call themselves women. the women are more bottom of the barrel than most of the guys simply becuase they are all obese while most of the guys aren't
its just basic supply and demand. there is much higher supply of men than women
No, they really aren't. Trust me, if these guys were only fat and without the problem they have now, they'd be better. Besides, some people like fat. Bbw porn etc... These guys you chose are definitely not average and apart from one girl I know (but she's desperate and even had a homeless dude before) not one single girl I know would give any of these guys you chose the time of day. They're not normal. And you called them young when they're all over 40 and shit, which is an even bigger joke than you calling them normal. They're old and they're not normal, sorry.
you can barely make out with any of them look like becuase their avi is small and barely shows them. not sure what your basing this all of us. i think just the fact they are desperate enough to hit on women that old is ugly is what you're judging them by
The things they say, and the ones with close up pics you can fully see only a few are far pics. Trust me, every girl has seen these exact comments and messages and it's ALWAYS from the same type of guy and the only women who are flattered are desperate. Like even ugly women turn these kinda guys down. She's gotta be desperate, not ugly. I'm surprised there's no "empress" or "princess" comments though.
So basically if you compliment a girl and tell her she's good looking you are desperate and "bottom of the barrel"? By that same logic, all the women who go on justin bebers instagram page to tell him he's good looking hot etc are all desperate as well. Basically, your defintion for "bottom of the barrel" stems from whether you compliment someone or not. You set the bar high dont you.
men are being forced to settle for less AS A RESULT of women thinking they are entitled to top 20% of men. men lowering there standards is a direct result of women having higher standards. women need to lower their standards to balance things out. the problem is this. women can put on makeup and clothes and raise their looks by 2-4 points MINIMUM and then they feel entitled to men way out of their league and bitch and complain when they get pumped and dumped bu these men way above their league just as anyone could have predicted.
not sure why you are assuming this means im "butthurt" maybe you are too unintelligent to understand the question at hand so you just assume my post has no validity. some people just have lower IQ than its so i dont blame you for not being able to understand the deeper message
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