Two of my best friends are girls. We hang out all the time, and we all get along really well and are really close. I'm just worried that it is causing girls to be less interested when they see me in public, already with two other girls. And im not sure if its making it harder to get a girlfriend.
No, it's pretty obvious when two people are together, the problems with having two girl best friends start when your in a relationship :)
Seriously though, most girls dont go out on their own though so the thing you may find is that with more men you all attract more women, that doesn't mean they are attracted to you though... just numbers and more chances.
Just mix it up, go out with your male friends occasionally too, and enjoy your best friends when you're with them rather than treating each outing as an opportunity to meet someone.
Personally it's not so much a turn off as it is a playoff of my own insecurities. I don't know if that makes any sense but when I'm into a guy that has close female friends, I know that somewhere down the line that's gonna cause problems, and yea I guess that could definitely make me reconsider things. In my last relationship my boyfriend pretty much had ONLY female friends. At first it bothered me, but instead of going with my intuition, I decided that I was being unreasonable. Needless to say, his female friends started causing all sorts of trouble, and now we are exes for that very reason.
To me PERSONALLY, it does. If a guy is into a girl, and girl is into him, she wants to feel like she's special to him, or at least holds value. However when he's joking around and hanging around another girl a lot, then we automatically go "Oh, he's into her" or even "Oh, he's a player. I don't wanna deal with a player."
Absolutely not. It makes you even more attractive in my opinion because you know how to converse with girls, you understand them etc.
However you are right, maybe the girls who are interested in you and do not know you personally will think that you're already taken. I would say that you would have to make the first move on such a girl because you're always hanging out with you're female friends so it would be quite difficult for any girl to approach you in such a situation, not to mention that you would have to flirt like crazy with her lol to make your interest known.. :D
My best friend is a guy. We don't see each other often (live about 45 minutes away from each other). While he hasn't done a lot of dating in recent years, none of my boyfriends have ever really had a problem. I don't see it being fair forcing a significant other to give up their friends.
Though, if I saw a guy out with one or more females who he was obviously just friends with, I would be a little hesitant to approach him, but I wouldn't not do it.
Some girls need to get over this "female politics" bullshit.
No? My best friend is also a guy. He knows more about girl problems and won't judge that bad if I have my period and the cramps are bad af. Last time he brought me roses and chocolate with his friend 💗
It wouldn't make the guy less attractive on a basic level for me, but I'll always wonder if he has a crush or any of his friends, or it he slept with them. But I would still give him a chance to see if anything can happen between us.
Its okay to have girlfriends, there's always exceptions. But ultimately we get this instant thought of "Oh he's a player". Just this week I was asked out by two guys and the next day they both are hanging out one on one with a girl (from what I could see on snap story). So I told one we're better off as just friends and will give the benefit of the doubt to the second date. I mean, obviously this situation is a little different, but relevant. It's a total turn off for me. After being in multiple relationships/flings, I'm looking for something serious at this point. I'm tired of playing games. It's not that it's unattractive, but more of a red flag to watch out for. It's all about protecting our hearts at the end of the day.
It'd probably intimidate some girls. My best friend is a guy he's constantly around girls because his closest friends are almost all females. His closest friends are me, our female friend from New York, our female friend from South America, and his childhood guy friend. He's always with 3 girls. I'm pretty sure his girlfriend broke up with him because of me specifically since I'm his best friend and she took it the wrong way. Dating is probably gonna be difficult for you?