What I've noticed is that I attract shy guys and it's actually not a bad thing. Shy guys are like adorable puppies. I find it super cute when guys are socially awkward or when they get nervous talking to their crush or when they can't even look her in the eye.. I try to make their lives easier by showing them that I don't bite and by smiling all the time while talking to them. I like showing people that I'm super friendly and that I like talking to them.
Some are cute when they are shy. But since I'm pretty shy myself, I don't really mesh well with other extremely shy people. That's why I prefer someone talkitive so that I can be more of the listener:)
Most of the time they don't want to talk or avoid talking or won't talk much. It's hard to keep a conversation going, especially if they have a hard time even looking you in the eye. It's discouraging because they're too shy to even send you signals to determine if you should try/continue flirting or not.
Guy I been seeing is a shy one. I have to say it's really hard lol it's harder for me because I'm a Leo I need constant attention and love lol And my guy doesn't really give me that. I initiate most contact, I ask him to hang out pretty much all the time.. Lol But I adore him so much I prefer shy guys better than cocky, full of themselves dudes. As long as my guy shows me some interest and that he cares, I'm cool with a shy guy.
I think most girls do like shy guys but mostly they don't do anything about it. They wait for the shy guy to suddenly change themselves, become bold and approach them, pursue them which is nearly an impossible task for a shy guy.
Some women they do take the initiatives, they take charge and then they realize they are one of the best men to have in their lives.
That they are a waste of time all to often. Which ticks me off when then all they date are the overly extrovert "potentially" asshole like guys. Who are way too full of themselves. Which leaves the question then "are you planning to be single your entire life if being shy or introverted doesn't work for you?" Then its this strange diluted response that just leaves a huge brain fart. As then generally girls are like, well I guess I could try it... Its then like now your contradicting yourself.
I don't know. They probably give up after not too long. It must be a drain on their energy to try to force words out of someone when there are 100 extroverted, more energetic (and thus hotter) guys wanting to take them out.
I am extremely introverted and "shy" but I'm also a psycho with anger issues.
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