If are looking for a long term relationship cons outweigh the pros. Unless you make a lot of money you should really look for someone with a career or at least a direction they want to go in life. Also if you are thinking kids you want someone who is responsible and puts his family first.
If there's many pros but one deal breaker then I'd leave. Personally for me , there's 3 dealbreakers:" Distance between where we live Often puts himself (and his friends) first Displays irresponsible behaviour". I'd end it on those alone. Regardless of the pros.
First of all ask your self a question. When you met him and you agreed to dating him, was he like that or did he change after he started dating you? If he was like that when you giys started dating you should have never dated him in the first place if you dont like those things. If he changed after you guys started dating then those things are fixable seeing how its hard to find a job these days cause of the economy, he's probly cheap and maybe is trying to find a real job but in the meantime he rather have a job. His friends shouldn't be a priority but you could try to talk to him about that. No style? Thats simple start telling him what he looks good on and what turns you on if he wears this or that kind of clothes. And last but not least distance is thee worst ine for me. If you guys live vlose to esch ither like a couple hours away its fine but if you live faaar from each other and you think you can work things out then go for it although it is very hard but if you can't handle it then end it right now. Good luck!
Well, you're never ever gonna meet a man who doesn't have a list of cons. And guess what, there's pros AND cons about you too. You ain't perfect, lady. I'll tell you this though, most of the things you listed as cons are temporary conditions and not necessarily his fault. He doesn't have a real job? Well guess what, if you look at the real unemployment numbers, you'll find that MOST people don't have a real job. 33% of my generation is unemployed, the Great Depression was 25% nationwide, for comparison. Maybe him not having a real job is a good reason to be cheap, are you sure that's a con? The value of a dollar is 5% of what it was in 1913, you really want a guy who spends money like it's going out of style? Is that what you call "irresponsible behavior?" I already found out one con to dating you, you don't like to adjust your standards to fit reality and you're judgmental as hell. But apparently he loves you anyway. You'd treasure that if you knew how rare it really is.
Pros that need added Communicates good Shows real love Good fun Great sex Honest (most of the time) Kinda cute Spoils me with attention A lot in common Yes pros can outweigh if there is improvements made
Without his (or her) word, a person is literally as good as dead. Dead. Not even alive. Gtfo while yr heart's still in one piece, girly.
Also. *please* do some soul-searching, to try to understand why you actually listed this as a "pro"!
"Honest MOST of the time" just means that he'll LIE whenever honesty becomes DIFFICULT. Girl. It DOESN'T MATTER if the boy tells the truth 99.5 percent of the time... It doesn't matter at all. Because it's that other 0.5 percent of the time -- when it's actually HARD to tell the truth -- that MATTERS.
That's the ONLY thing that matters.
ANYONE can be honest when being honest is EASY. You need a man who can be honest ALL the time. Even when it hurts.
Everything needs to be looked at. But the moment you start having sex, you tend to be clouded and miss those red flags. But with that kind of list show a lot of immaturity of both partners. That is not enough to sustain a proper relationship and its bound to fail at some point in their lives. That is very clear just by reading this list.