Lol harassment. Goodness I feel bad for those looking for relationships nowadays. This culture is literally disgusting... I mean guys looking for relationships have been brainwashed into thinking that even cold approach is harassment nowadays.
It's gotten so bad that the other day Law and Order SVU aired an episode where they tried to prosecute a guy for hooking up.
Anyhow don't harassment to be honest. I would be more worried about the fact that cold approach is extremely ineffective way of meeting women.
Females, should males approach women in stores or on the street, such as shopping places or food places as well? C. These places are good to approach when she wants to be approached
In my opinion it's not the location that makes it harassment it's the lack of reciprocation. Basically the 'good' time to approach a gal and talk to her is when she wants to be approached not whenever you want to.
I am not sure how effective it will be. My natural inclination is to turn down men that hit on me. But I am not sure how common my response is as is to other females so I hope you get more females that respond to your question.
I do not think it is harassment. I think that is a very big stretch. Harassment is saying no to a man very clearly but he still will not take that no as a no. That is harassment. And if anyone else tries to tell you otherwise, they are bat shit stupid. :)
Yes these can be good places to approach. But make sure your reading her body language and she's giving you signals that she wants to be approached. If she's not reciprocating or even acknowledging that you exist then just leave it until she does take notice of you. Its the lack of communication that annoys me. I've had one or two men that just resort to non verbal communication and they just seem to stand beside me waiting on me to initiate with them first. So they just end up giving me successions of staring, standing next to me and following me around.
Yeah man you totally should. I do this regularly when I'm out running errands. If I see a cute girl I go talk to her, if its at the grocery store, the gas station, what-ever.
Going after girls during the day is a little different than say talking to a girl at the bar or something like that. You are going to get shot down a lot more, and run into a lot more girls with "boyfriends", however you can always turn that around.
If I get the boyfriend response I just tell them "well you must have some friends that a girls right? How about we exchange numbers and you can tell them all about the awesome guy you just met today when you were shopping" It works more than you'd think.
Most success has been in a club-type environment where it feels normal to converse with people known to the others in the "club". "Club" ranges from the most formal like church to sports teams to work/college/classes to bars/restaurants. The least formal of course allows most anyone in which raises guards unless introduced by someone she knows.
Advice: take some dance classes = solves all these problems