I asked a question here a long time ago. I had been talking to this guy I really loved but who outright said he was NOT interested in me and only saw me as a friend. He was also interested in a different girl at the time. But I just had a feeling he wasn't being honest. I asked if I should keep trying and stick around and being a good friend in the hopes he eventually feels the same and everyone said I was stupid and would just be wasting my time.
Well, I disregarded that (sorry) and kept talking to him every day, even if it was only to say "have a good day at work" or "dress warmly" or whatever. Eventually he said he felt like I was forcing him to like me and I felt bad so I gave up and stopped talking to him.
After a couple days he texted me saying he couldn't stop thinking about me no matter how hard he tried and admitted that he's in love with me and he officially asked me to be his girlfriend. We've been together and very happy for almost 2 years now. So yeah. Follow your intuition and gut feeling sometimes!
Has anyone else ever gotten advice that they did the opposite of, or maybe that worked out badly?
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I think advice on here is more of a way to get other peoples thoughts and advice. Its good to have a sounding board sometimes and get some different eye's on a situation. However you are totally correct that anything said on here shouldn't be taken as gospel.
It helps to get opinions from people on a situation, but at the end of the day this is just a bunch of random people on the internet that aren't living it and can't understand the situation beyond hows its described.
Its good that you went with how you feel and awesome that it worked out for the best. Everyone will snap to a judgement usually based off what they do in their life and it is clearly not always the best thing for every situation.
I've posted questions on here before and took everyone's thoughts in consideration and did what I thought was the best plan of action, but it is nice to hear what other people think about the situation.1